"Puppy" -- the love of Gavin's life.
"Puppy" is a blue soft blanket with a dog head attached to it that Gavin adores. He takes puppy just about everywhere and must sleep with him at naptime and at bedtime. There have been many times where bedtime has been delayed because a search party (mommy and daddy) have been sent out to find "puppy". I must admit we all love puppy for one reason or another.
As you may have read in my previous posts Gavin has really been throwing us for a loop lately. Everytime I turn around he is doing something he isn't supposed to be doing. (I know this is typical of any preschooler and definitely a boy!) He is driving us crazy!!
Today he had a horrible day at school! I'm not really sure what his deal was but he was caught throwing mulch at his friends, pushing in line, and pinching the other kids!
By the end of the day I had just had it....I felt like I had tried everything. We have a behavior management system in our classroom and that wasn't working. I told him that we would no longer be going to Jumpin Beans this afternoon. It didn't matter until I finally struck gold.......
NO PUPPY tonight!! Puppy will be staying at school! (I must admit I did question for a minute what I was thinking. This was going to be just as bad for me when he was crying and didn't want to go to bed but it was worth a try! This behavior could not continue) You have never seen a boy break down into tears like Gavin did when puppy was taken away. I did assure him that if he was a good listener tomorrow puppy would sleep with him at nap but not tonight.
Things were going ok through the afternoon without puppy. There would be an occasional "where's my puppy?" and I would remind him but other than that we were ok. Then it was bedtime. The crying started. What a wonderful teachable moment. Both Matt and I explained again about puppy and why he wasn't sleeping at home tonight. After a good 15 minutes of crying (which is long for a kid who just gets in bed and goes to sleep) Gavin assured me that "I be a good listener tomorrow mommy cause I miss me puppy. I love him mommy." Sad I know but maybe just maybe I have gotten through to him my motto I adopted from one of my old students....
"When you do bad things, bad things happen. When you do good things, good things happen."
We'll see how he does tomorrow!